So, being the kind, generous, majestic soul I am, I decided to grace you readers with yet another guest author, a miss "Bella Darling" (Trust me, I tried to convince her/him/her not to name themselves this). I'll put up a poll to the left of this post asking if you want to see more of her/his/her opinions. Cheers!
So this is not “Joshua Valett” if you were expecting it, sorry. Instead, it’s a girl this time, with a different view of being a teenager, also known as living hell.
This is the time of our lives when we make mistakes. In fact, most people expect mistakes from teenagers. These mistakes include falling in love and then crying our eyes out over a tub of Ben and Jerry’s triple chocolate brownie while watching *insert chick-flick here* when the relationship ends…or maybe that’s just me. But the falling in and out of love thing is true. Now. Were all friends here right? So when I ask you if you have ever had your heart broken, I fully expect the majority of you reading to say yes. I know I have multiple times, and I’m not ashamed to say that. Having my heart broken has made me a stronger person and made me realize that guys are not, in fact, the center of the universe. The difference between guys and girls is girls have an easier time with feelings . GASP FEELINGS! CODE RED CODE RED! I know. This is dangerous territory. Here’s the thing, admitting your feelings doesn’t make you weak, or vulnerable, it actually makes you more ten bajillionmilliontrillionthoussandhundredbillion times more attractive just in general. I know this is asking a lot, but the next time you see your girlfriend, boyfriend, best friend, crush, or significant other, just ask them how they are doing, how their day is going, or what’s new with them. You would be surprised how far it will get you. Feelings aren’t something to be afraid of, every person has them, you should capitalize on them instead.
I recently had my heart broken. Sad times. But I don’t regret it, because it showed me the persons true colors. My point is that you, yes YOU, should NEVER EVER EVER EVER EVER be afraid to like someone, or more importantly, do something about it! I know that liking someone and the thought of doing anything more than admiring from afar can make death seem like a more enjoyable alternative, but im serious its not that bad. I told someone I liked them once, it made me want to throw up while I was doing it, and I got my ass rejected to the street. It sucked for a while, but it was better than never knowing and spending my life wondering. Plus, I moved on and I was happier from it, gave me the ability to find someone who really cared about me. I want you to say something with me, both girls and guys. Repeat after me: Admitting my feelings is not the worst thing that will ever happen in this world. Let that sink in a moment. Then repeat. Not so bad right? Because it isn’t! Feelings are what make us human! Without them, well we would be cold blocks of heartless mush. Eww.
Here’s something beautiful about being a teenager: Were still young. We have loads of time left! So if no one likes you right now, or you have come to the realization that people suck, or you just aren’t ready, that’s all okay. There’s plenty of time for all of that.
One more thing? Love is beautiful. Never be afraid of it.
Thanks for reading and considering,
-B. Darling
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